1. Build Relationships with Students
2. No Homework!
I strongly, strongly, strongly disagree with homework being assigned at the elementary level. I have only taught elementary school, so I do not feel that I can make an informed decision on middle and high school (at least not publicly!). I work 7:30 a.m. - 3:30 p.m. 5 days/week. We all know that educators put in far more hours than that. I am only referring to those hours because at 3:30, I am tired! I spend countless hours (of my choosing) after 3:30 p.m. creating, planning, and learning myself. For the sake of this position though, I will reiterate - I am exhausted at 3:30 p.m.! I have worked hard, put in 110% effort to help each and every child in my room emotionally, socially, and educationally. I expect the same out of my students - put in 110% effort each day. At 3:30 p.m. they can be done. Our classroom rule is, "Try your best!" Kids need to be kids. The kids who have caring, available, and quite frankly, able parents at home will practice their math facts, they will read, they will be read to. Unfortunately, not every child has even one parent at home that is caring, available, able, or any mix of the three. Requiring them to do any type of homework adds stress and anxiety to their already not "perfect" lives. This past week, I was told by a 3rd grade teacher in my building that, "Even 5 minutes of homework a night will teach them responsibility." No, no, no! We have these children for 7-8 hours per day. We have plenty of opportunities to teach them how to be responsible. I have 2 daughters, 3rd and 4th grade. By the time we get home from school (barring any after school appointments or activities) our night looks like this:
4:00 p.m. - Get home, unpack lunch boxes, backpacks, folders, and all other items acquired from the day!
4:20-4:30 p.m. - Start cooking dinner, clean up kitchen, take care of animals (combined mommy, daddy, daughters collaboration).
5:00 p.m. - Eat dinner, clean up after dinner.
5:45/6:00 - 7:00 p.m. - Girls shower/baths. Forever reason, they take unreasonably long baths. I suppose that is the closest thing they have to the beach and warmth when you live in Northern Wisconsin and experience what feels like 9 months of winter (and sometimes is!).
7:00-7:30 p.m. - FREE TIME
7:30 p.m. - Start getting ready for bed.
Again, this is a night without any after school appointments, meetings, or pit stops - which is typically twice per week. From 7:00-7:30 p.m. I do NOT want to do homework, nor do I want my girls to. They need a break! I need a break! This is FREE time. If kids can do the homework assigned, they don't need to do it. If they can't, it will only cause struggle and stress. I love, love, love the below article that I found. I am going to use this post/blog to continue to add articles and information that I found to support my cause - stop the unnecessary stress, tension, and hell that is known as homework!